When she’s not sleeping or curled up in a lap, my sweet dog Penny spends a great deal of her time chasing things. She chases balls, sticks, toys, dogs at the dog park, squirrels, birds, and our poor cat. When she’s feeling particularly hyper—which is often because she’s 9 months old—she chases her tail. She goes around and around in circles at full speed. Trust me, it is a sight to behold. Here’s the interesting part: When she catches her tail she keeps spinning around, holding the tip of her tail in her mouth. At this point, I think she has completely forgotten the objective. She’s just playing and enjoying the moment (which is really the only part of this scenario that makes her different than humans).
People spend a lot of time chasing things, too. We run in circles trying to obtain something all the time. And, like Penny, we don’t know exactly what it is that we see out of the corner of our eyes, but we know it looks shiny and so we MUST have it. Fortune, fame, success, relationships, new shoes, whatever—often we don’t fully understand the objects of our desire because we haven’t fully experienced them. So when we finally reach our goals, we can’t even recognize that we now have everything we always wanted. So we KEEP GOING! We turn our attention to some speck we see off in the distance even though we already have the thing that we set out to obtain in the first place.
There are really only a few possible outcomes to this scenario, which I’ve learned by watching Penny. We become so exhausted that we can’t possibly run any more, so we give up. We lie down and settle for what we have, but always long for something else. (Usually we just try again after we’re rested a bit.) Or we get so dizzy that we spin out of control and crash into a table leg (or, you know, whatever). When this happens we think we’ve been hit by an outside force, which has kept us from realizing our dreams (maybe a financial hardship, for example) when we might have really caused the fiasco ourselves by behaving like a 9-month-old puppy.. Or we can find a more productive way to channel our energy… I choose yoga. Penny, well, I should probably take her to the park more often. 🙂
I’ve been chasing my tail for a long time, and contentment seems like a much better choice. So I make a conscious effort to slow down and see how very blessed I am every time I step onto my yoga mat. And I think I’m slowly beginning to see myself form into healthier, more productive thought and life patterns.Thank goodness, because spinning in circles can make you crazy (and dizzy)!
What do you do to slow down and channel your energy toward positive things?
Frenzy36 says
I just fell in love with this article, you really have exposed something very important here.
It immediately reminded me of a couple of things in my life lately. One is my rehab after surgery. Now that I have the go-ahead to start easing back into yoga & cycling I can see exactly what I have been missing. I now really relax into a stretch not forcing it to "improve" my overall ability. The mental difference is refreshing. Now I can accept where I am, feel happy about it, and not feel "I need more"
The other related habit is my afternoon pause. I get a beer or cocktail, go out on the deck and just take it all in. I've talked to more neighbors in the last few weeks walking by, watched eagles,hawks, and all sorts of birds. The pace just seems so refreshing. I share what I've been experiencing on twitter and if you can't tell – I have been having a great time.
So yes slow down, appreciate what you have instead of what you don't have, and if ready share some of that with the rest of the world.
Great writing Erica
Frenzy36 says
PS What an awesomely cute picture of Penny – what a little rascal you are raising there!
jamieonthemat says
I love Penny and I love your thoughtful musings on her personality. What you write is so true and insightful – kudos to you for slowing down long enough to notice it.
Carrie says
I love this sharing it every where
SpoiledYogi says
Frenzy, I didn't know you were recovering from surgery. What did you you have done? I'm trying to spend more time outside to slow down, too, and it's a great feeling! (Trying to spend more time away from my computer, too! It's amazing how quickly time passes when I'm sitting in front of this thing…) I wish I could take credit for the pic, but it was the work of a neighbor who used to watch Penny for me while I worked. But, yes, definitely a little rascal! 🙂
Jamie and Carrie, Thanks so much for reading and commenting! Penny told me she would like to shower you all with lots of doggy kisses.
Have a wonderful weekend!
Meredith LeBlanc says
I ♥ Penny!!!
I've been trying to slow down by spending less time staring at screens. Since I look at the computer all day during the week I try to not turn my laptop at home on the weekends – if I do I keep it very task oriented and shut it off asap.
I'm looking forward to having a dog again soon to be more motivated to get out and walk. Fresh air is a wonderful cure all!
Great writing Erica!