Stress is stupid.
I’ve been paying close attention to the things that stress me out lately. What I’ve noticed is that I get in a tizzy over things that don’t actually matter–a typo on a blog post or press release, failing to reach some arbitrary goal at work, not meeting some family member’s expectation. These things that I get SO upset about don’t put someone’s life on the line. They don’t threaten someone’s job. They don’t even cost a lot of money.
So why on earth do I get so stressed out about things that I can’t control and that don’t matter anyway? I don’t know… but I’ve decided not to do it any more. That’s right. I’m opting out. I can’t control many, many things in life, but I can control the way I react to them. So the next time something trivial seems like a life-or-death matter when it’s really not that big of a deal I’m going to close my eyes, breathe deep, and try to see it as an objective observer. And if that doesn’t work, I’m going to work it all out on my yoga mat.
What dumb things do you stress about? How do you put it into perspective? What do you do to
jackiek says
Dumb things that stress me out:
Slow Drivers
Pimples {funny how they appear when we're stressed, and then we stress out about them even more so more appear?}
When I can't find a shirt, pants, shorts, etc.
I usually just take a deep breath and walk away from the situation!
Meredith LeBlanc says
Typos. Typos make me nuts. Sigh, I need to learn to let typos go. I am human and typos happen – this I have to accept.
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genkikitty says
Typos is mine too. I stress about crazy things like how to put my hair up before exercising so it doesn't go all "caveman" on me. haha I just try to remember that life goes on no matter what… it's all in the mind. A few deep breathes and on with my day.
SpoiledYogi says
It's crazy how stressed out we Type As get about typos!
@jackiek, Yes! Those ARE stupid things that I stress about, too!! Why do we do this to ourselves?!
coastyoga says
I ALWAYS stress about conversations that haven't happened yet. I run through want I want to say in my head and then imagine all of the bad things that the other person could say, and it's just silly. 99% of the time none of it ever happens!