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I’m always amazed at the rampant misconceptions about yoga. Even now that yoga studios are as common as Starbucks, people think yoga is all about stretching and being healthy. I guess it can be that, but it can also be much more. Here are the things I wish everyone understood about yoga.
1. It doesn’t matter how flexible or inflexible you are. Really. Being flexible won’t make you happier. There’s no prize. Stop suffering and learn to love the body you have!
2. Don’t get hung up on how you look in a pose. Everyone else in class is focusing on their own pose. They don’t care how you look (unless you’re wearing a thong). Let this be your first lesson in ego management.
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3. It’s OK if you don’t know what the Sanskrit words mean. The only people in the room who do are teachers or big yoga dorks.
4. It’s not religious—unless you want it to be. Your practice should be unique to you. You’re allowed to make it as spiritual, religious, fitness oriented (or not) as you want. (If someone tells you otherwise, please have them call me.)
5. Yoga is an art form, a science, a lifestyle, and a philosophy. But more than anything, it’s a way to get to know yourself better. And that’s something that benefits us all.
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6. Everyone gets the left and right sides mixed up sometimes. Don’t be embarrassed when this happens. If your teacher corrects you, just smile. There’s a good chance she’ll say “left” when she means “right” later in the class.
7. It’s cool to fall down. The first time I fell on my face while attempting an arm balance, I was mortified. Now, when I get a big red mark on my forehead from diving head-first into my mat, I consider it a badge of honor. It’s how you learn. Laugh at yourself and move on!
8. No one cares if you can do a Handstand in the middle of the room, or touch your foot to the back of your head, or some other advanced pose. Just start where you are, and your practice will build over time. You’ve got the rest of your life to master the poses–for now, just breathe.
9. Your teacher wants you to ask for help. No one understands the temptation to hide in the back row and pretend to be invisible more than I do. But believe me when I say yoga teachers LOVE to answer your questions. Your teacher really wants to help you with your pose, answer your question about philosophy, or explain what that Sanskrit word means. So if you don’t understand what’s going on, ask!
10. Keep coming back. When your new to anything there will be moments of frustration and discomfort. Despite what you might see on TV commercials, hatha yoga is usually not the same as going to a spa to get pampered. It’s hard work. It can be exhausting–physically, mentally, and emotionally. At times you will want to throw up your hands and quit (or at least curse out your teacher for making you hold that pose you hate). Don’t. This is where the healing happens. Breathe into it, and come back tomorrow. You’ll be glad you did.
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Carrie says
so true took me awhile to learn those
Meredith LeBlanc says
LOVE the new look!!! and the blog, all excellent points.
Rachel @ Suburban Yogini says
Sometimes the teachers don't always remember the Sanskrit either 😉
Elise says
Don't put your yoga teacher on a pedestol.
While yoga most often makes you wiser, more sane, physically and emotionally healthier. Yoga teachers are human- We often forget to breathe, drive recklessly on our way to yoga class, get cancer, act crazy, feel insecure and make fools of ourselves. Remember you teach what you most need to know.
Heather Colvin says
I love this post! I work for Green Monkey (a yoga company in Miami) and it took me a year to get brave enough to walk into a class because I was so intimidated, wish I'd read this my first day! But my curiosity got the better of me and now I've been practicing at LEAST 3 times a week and am totally in love. I still find myself wondering how ridiculous I look once in a while, but try to remind myself that in certain poses (happy baby…) everyone looks ridiculous. This post is so right on!
On that note Erica, Green Monkey publishes 5 online newsletters monthly if you have any interest in writing for us I'm the editor and we would, love, love, love to have you! Feel free to email me at heather@greenmonkey.net to follow up if you have any interest otherwise – keep creating this awesome and inspiring content!
SpoiledYogi says
I'm glad ya'll like the new look! Thanks for commenting. It gives me warm-fuzzies!
Elise, That is an excellent point. I'm glad you brought it up. I realized just how human teachers are when I finished my teacher training and still felt like SUCH a student. Now, I get it!
Heather, I emailed you! Thanks for dropping by!
Anonymous says
Thank you for this…
Yogi-to-be
Anahita says
Amen, sister! I wish that others also knew what it was I am truly referring to when I say "yoga practice". I love this list!
arcellgonzalez says
My every day starts only with yoga and that is why I know about it but I come to know in detail from you. I am glad that now people are giving importance to yoga so that they can stay fit and healthy.
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Ninie Ahmad says
I shared this very post in my blog, thanks Spoiled Yogi for writing it as if it was written from all of us 'seasoned' yogis!
babYpose says
Thank you for sharing. It is very informative for a mother like me to get in shape not just that, to back as energized as before giving birth 🙂
featheredpipe says
nice blog!!it will definitely help beginners…